From Loneliness To Laughter
19 February 2025
FINDING FRIENDS WITH ST GEORGE COMMUNITY
Life can sometimes take unexpected turns, leaving us feeling isolated and unsure of how to move forward. But for many in the St George area, a simple decision to step out and connect has led to newfound friendships, joy, and a renewed sense of purpose.
In 2019, eighty-six-year-old Val Goodsell was struggling to cope with the loss of her grandson, to bowel cancer at just 32 years old. During this difficult time, a close friend encouraged her to join the St George Community social outings. “I was hesitant at first, but then agreed, and it was an absolute lifesaver for me.” Val shared.
Two years later, Val, from Connells Point, received another blow with the passing of her son from prostate cancer at 63 years old. “St George Community has been there for me at some of the darkest times of my life.” She shared. “It is a wonderful organisation with deeply caring drivers, carers and office staff. They are all very special people.”
Since that very first trip six years ago, Val has been on numerous overnight trips to places like Mudgee, Dubbo, the South Coast, and the Blue Mountains. “This month, I am heading down to Bateman’s Bay. The trips are all so well organised, giving me the opportunity to spend more time with the wonderful friends I have met on my journey.”
“We all absolutely love the overnight trips – especially sitting at the back of the bus, laughing like schoolgirls. They call us the ‘naughty corner!’”
A NEW LEASE ON LIFE
Lynn Abraham, 69, from Bexley, also found herself in need of a change. “I was stuck in my unit, feeling isolated,” she said. “Even though I could drive, I had no one to go anywhere with. It was lonely.”
That all changed when she joined St George Community. “I love it – big red heart love it! I’ve met so many wonderful people, and I can’t imagine my life without these outings now.”
Starting with shopping trips, Lynn quickly became a fan of the overnight getaways. “We laugh so much, my belly and face hurt! And I love the scenic drives – it’s nostalgic seeing the places from my youth on Sydney’s North Shore.”
JUST HAVE A GO!
For Rosemary Maughan, 80, from Carlton, St George Community was a turning point. Life had thrown many challenges her way. “I had a stress-induced stroke at 41 years old, then I had cancer and underwent thirteen gruelling years of treatment, which left me with a weak heart. I needed surgery to have a pacemaker fitted. While I was recovering, my husband became sick, and I became his carer. He passed away at the height of the pandemic lockdown. I was a mess – isolated, lonely, and felt like I had nowhere to turn.”
“Things were very dark,” Rosemary admitted. “I lost all my confidence; I became completely housebound and was too fearful to even go around the shops. My mobility suffered, and I could barely walk. I’d given up.”
One day, after rehab at Calvary Hospital, she accidentally got on a St George Community Transport bus. That little mistake changed everything.
Rosemary picked up a community newsletter, read about the BActive program, and decided to give it a go. “I started with Aqua Aerobics and Steady, Stable and Able classes. Within eight months, I was walking unaided, my stick was gone, and my bright clothes came back out of the wardrobe.”
Now, Rosemary is busier than ever, joining social outings several times a week. “I feel like myself again. I’ve made wonderful friends, and I’m absolutely living life to the fullest.”
For anyone feeling isolated, she has one piece of advice: “Just give it a go! Start with one outing or class – what have you got to lose? There’s a whole world out there waiting for you.”
St George Community provides community transport and NDIS services, supporting older people, people with disabilities, carers, and other vulnerable members of the community. Our services help clients live independently, stay socially connected, and enjoy a good quality of life.
Find more information about St George Community social outings, overnight trips and the BActive program here. Alternatively, you can call St George Community on 9585 3000 and speak to one of our friendly team members.
